Why Does Life After Divorce Have To Be Complicated?
How to Cut Emotional Ties with your Ex-Spouse
Have you seen the movie “It’s Complicated?” While the film is outrageously funny and f
eatures superstars Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin, and Steve Martin, it does pose some serious, thought-provoking questions about life after divorce.
Is it possible to completely cut emotional ties with an ex-spouse so that you can move on with your life after splitting up a long-term marriage? Of course it depends on whether you have children, post-divorce financial support, or have other reasons to bump into each other in the workplace or community. What if you moved to a place far away from your ex-husband? Is there still some karmic bond that forever ties you together?
If those emotional ties and feelings are blocking you from moving on with your life after separation or divorce, here are some suggested remedies:
- “Break the Karmic Bond” Prayer – a brief but powerful prayer to help you access your inner strength. Click here to learn more.
- Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) – a technique for tapping certain meridian points in your face and body to release emotional pain and to re-balance your inner energy. Click here to learn more.
Ultimately, the emotional chains of past relationships will melt away if you accept your share of responsibility for the breakdown, and if you completely forgive him and yourself for what happened. By closing out your “unfinished business” with your ex, you will release the subconscious ties and enable yourself to truly move on with your life.
What do you think? We would love to hear from you.